After 40 years of washing windows, I've gotten used to really short fingernails. I play bare fingered at home and recordings, but with others, I use light gauge 18, brass finger picks and a Goldengate thumb pick. Play with what is comfortable. Play clean. Don't hurt yourself.
I use a John Pearse short thumb pick and .024" brass finger picks on my lap steels. I switch to steel picks for pedal steel. I finger pick my guitar bare fingered.